The Short Answer
Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon were first publicly linked in June 2018.
They were photographed holding hands after a dinner date in New York City. That sighting, reported by PEOPLE, is the earliest reliable public link between them.
Neither Wesley nor de Ramon has publicly shared a detailed first-meeting story. This article does not invent one.
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Who Are Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon?
Paul Wesley is an American actor best known as Stefan Salvatore in The Vampire Diaries.
He later played James T. Kirk in Star Trek: Strange New Worlds.
Ines de Ramon is a jewelry executive. She has held a senior role at Anita Ko Jewelry, a Los Angeles-based jewelry brand.
She is not an actress, and she did not appear in The Vampire Diaries.
When Did They Start Dating?
The public timeline starts in June 2018.
That month, Wesley and de Ramon were seen together after a dinner date in New York. A month later, Wesley posted a photo from a wedding in Montauk, New York, with de Ramon among the group.
By early 2019, the pair were photographed wearing matching wedding bands. That sparked reports that they had married quietly.
When Did Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon Marry?
Wesley and de Ramon married in 2019.
Their wedding was kept private, and they did not announce it with a public ceremony or statement at the time. Wesley’s former The Vampire Diaries co-star Nina Dobrev later referred to de Ramon as Wesley’s wife on a podcast in 2019, which confirmed the marriage publicly.
No reliable source supports a New Orleans wedding in August 2018. That date should not be used.
Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon Timeline
| Date | What happened |
|---|---|
| June 2018 | First publicly linked, after a dinner date in New York City |
| 2019 | Married in a private wedding |
| September 2022 | Separation announced; a representative said the decision was mutual and had happened five months earlier |
| February 2023 | Wesley filed for divorce, citing irreconcilable differences |
| February 2024 | Divorce finalised as uncontested |
| July 2026 | Wesley married Natalie Kuckenburg |
Why Did Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon Separate?
The couple’s representative said in September 2022 that the decision to separate was mutual.
The statement also said the separation had occurred five months earlier, which points to around April 2022. The couple asked for privacy at the time.
Wesley filed for divorce in February 2023. Court documents reported by PEOPLE described the divorce as uncontested, with a written agreement on property and marital rights.
The divorce was finalised in February 2024. Neither Wesley nor de Ramon has publicly given a detailed reason for the split beyond the filing, so this article does not speculate about one.
Are Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon Still Married?
No. Ines de Ramon is Paul Wesley’s ex-wife, not his current wife.
Their divorce was finalised in February 2024. Wesley later married model Natalie Kuckenburg in July 2026.
Kuckenburg announced the wedding on Instagram on 13 July 2026. Wesley later described it as a small, last-minute courthouse wedding in Santa Barbara, California, at San Diego Comic-Con that month.
Was Paul Wesley Married Before Ines de Ramon?
Yes. Wesley was previously married to actor Torrey DeVitto.
They were married from 2011 to 2013. De Ramon was his second wife, and Kuckenburg is his third.
Frequently Asked Questions
How did Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon meet?
There is no reliably reported, detailed first-meeting story from either of them. They were first publicly linked in June 2018, after being seen together in New York City.
Did Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon have children together?
No reliable report confirms that Wesley and de Ramon had a child together. Claims in older versions of this article about a baby in 2019, and about a son with a named identity, are not supported and have been removed.
What does Ines de Ramon do for a living?
She works in the jewelry industry. She has held a senior role at Anita Ko Jewelry. She is not a model or actress, and the film and fashion credits listed in older versions of this article belong to other people, not to her.
Is Ines de Ramon on The Vampire Diaries?
No. She never appeared in the show, and she is not a character in it. The character claims in older versions of this article are false.
Who is Paul Wesley married to now?
Paul Wesley is married to Natalie Kuckenburg. They married in July 2026, after his divorce from Ines de Ramon was finalised in February 2024.
